🔥 The Real Reason Most Adults Are Stuck


Dear Changemaker,

There’s one thing adults don’t tell you loudly enough:

Your worldview has an expiration date.

Not tomorrow. Not next year.
But sooner than you think.

Skills? You can learn those at 18, 35, or 57.
Excel formulas, AI prompts, pitch decks, SEO — all teachable.

But the way you see the world — what you think is possible, what you assume is normal, what you believe is valuable — that becomes concrete faster than you realize. Not because you choose it. But because you absorb it.

And if you don’t shape it early, the world will happily shape it for you.

But FIRST

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The Vietnam Moment

After I came home from a year in Vietnam during peak COVID, I wrote a reflection on LinkedIn — about emerging markets, youth, innovation, trying to understand a world bigger than the one I was raised in.

An acquaintance messaged me:

“Wow, so you lived a year in Vietnam?! That’s so exotic!”

This wasn’t coming from someone sheltered.
This was someone with a PhD. Someone who worked at big tech. Someone highly educated, highly intelligent… and yet?

His worldview was still stuck on:

emerging market = ‘exotic’ destination for cheap vacation + street food

I remember reading the message and thinking:

It’s not intelligence that limits people.
It’s worldview.

You can be highly educated and still see the world through the smallest, most superficial lens. And sadly, as shallow as that worldview is, it’s not something they can unlearn anymore.

The False Conditioning You’ve Already Absorbed

You’ve grown up being taught that:

  • More degrees = more depth
  • Fancy job title = competence
  • Big company = security
  • Straight As = proof you are smart

These aren’t just ideas.
These are defaults.

Defaults you inherit without consent.

And if you don’t challenge them early, they calcify. You end up navigating adulthood using someone else’s map — one that wasn’t drawn for the world you will actually live in.

The danger isn’t that the map is wrong.
The danger is that you never even think to question it.

Why Your Worldview Matters More Than Your GPA

Skill gaps are easy.
YouTube, mentors, bootcamps, internships — boom, solved.

But worldview?

Once it’s set, it becomes the lens you evaluate everything through:

Who you trust.
What opportunities you see.
What risks feel safe vs impossible.
What you believe you’re “allowed” to do.
What you consider “success.”

It becomes the blueprint you use to navigate your life.

A narrow worldview makes your life small and dull.

A trained, stretched, global worldview makes your life wide and colorful.

Most adults regret not learning this sooner.

Don’t Fall For the Trap

At OCE, we bring you into conversations with founders from ASEAN, global leaders, markets most people don’t even think about nor privy to.

Not because it’s a flex.
Not because we want to make you "worldly".

But because we refuse to let you inherit a worldview that shrinks you.

We want you to see the world while your mind is still wet cement — easy to shape, open to new structures, able to stretch without cracking.

Because once your worldview hardens, it becomes the ceiling you live under.

So Here’s the Real Ask:

Don’t wait until adulthood to question the assumptions you’re being fed.

Don’t wait until you feel stuck.

Expose yourself to new markets.
New problems.
New cultures.
New ways of thinking.
New people building crazy things in places your textbooks don’t even mention..

Because the worst thing that can happen to you isn’t failure.
It’s spending adulthood living inside someone else’s tiny, inherited idea of the world.

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PS. This summer, we are going to tackle pressing global issues and drive innovation in regions (such as your own community) where it is needed the most. Want in?

We run a summer cohort for ambitious youth (high school and undergrads) to work directly with world-class founders while learning from Silicon Valley leaders.

You can also explore purposeful opportunities through our Impact Internship Opportunities Database.

Get Curious.

Lena

https://www.openclassroomexperience.com/

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